INTRODUCING
Rekindle
A 10-month program for couples ready to reconnect and rediscover each other in a deeper, more intimate way.
– BEGINNING EARLY 2026 –
You’re here because something in your relationship feels muted.
Not broken. Not hopeless. Just quieter than it used to be. Maybe the intimacy and spark have faded. You’ve drifted apart as daily life has taken over — years of kids, work, caretaking, and survival mode slowly pushing your relationship onto the back burner. Maybe you’re not feeling appreciated and long to be known and desired by your partner. You’ve grown and changed, and your relationship hasn’t fully caught up.
In Rekindle, I work with couples who have a good foundation, who care deeply for each other, and who not only want to survive the midlife hurdle, but want to come out of the fog feeling more alive and connected.
It’s not too late to rekindle that spark.
You’re here because something in your relationship feels muted.
Not broken. Not hopeless. Just quieter than it used to be. Maybe the intimacy and spark have faded. You’ve drifted apart as daily life has taken over — years of kids, work, caretaking, and survival mode slowly pushing your relationship onto the back burner. Maybe you’re not feeling appreciated and long to be known and desired by your partner. You’ve grown and changed, and your relationship hasn’t fully caught up.
In Rekindle, I work with couples who have a good foundation, who care deeply for each other, and who not only want to survive the midlife hurdle, but want to come out of the fog feeling more alive and connected.
It’s not too late to rekindle that spark.
Rekindle isn’t about going back to how things used to be.
You don’t need to revisit the past. We’ll focus on moving forward.
Over 10 months, we’ll explore what’s been getting in the way and open new pathways to connection, pleasure, and ease. You’ll slow down, see each other with fresh and curious eyes, deepen your communication, and rebuild intimacy in ways that feel aligned, grounded and new.
You’ll leave Rekindle feeling closer, more attuned to each other, and excited about the future you’re creating together.
Rekindle is for you if you…
Still love your partner, but feel disconnected
Want deeper emotional and physical intimacy
Are feeling unappreciated and long to be truly known for who you are now
Realize that years of kids, work, and caretaking have put your relationship on the back burner
Sense you’ve changed over the years and need new ways to relate to your partner
Prefer experiential work over (or in addition to) talk therapy
You’ll come home with…
New communication tools that help you avoid the same dead-end arguments
Tools to navigate desire discrepancies, including low desire or erectile challenges common in midlif
A clearer understanding of your core desires and erotic blueprints, so you can have the sex you both want
A more expansive menu of physical, sensual, and emotional intimacy
Clarity around your needs, boundaries, and capacity, and how to express them
Practices that help you repair emotional ruptures with care
A deeper understanding of your core wounds and how to support each other with empathy and compassion
Inside Rekindle
Rekindle is open to a limited number of couples for the 2026 session (mid-January through October).
The program includes:
Private couples coaching
Individual coaching for each partner
Two 3-night retreats in Northern California, no more than 3 hours from the Bay Area
Monthly group coaching and support calls
All coaching and retreat facilitation
Retreat accommodations and meals are included. Travel is not. Exact retreat dates and locations will be shared in early 2026.
Coaching sessions can be held over Zoom or in person in Walnut Creek.
Hi, I’m Aimee.
I’m a Somatica®-trained Sex and Relationship Coach and Breathwork Facilitator.
My own profound midlife awakening — including divorce after a 26-year relationship — showed me how few of us have the tools we need to stay connected through major life transitions. I created Rekindle to give midlife couples the support my husband and I didn’t have: a space to grow together, navigate change, and even build an entirely new version of their relationship.
In addition to my personal experiences, my approach blends somatic practices, experiential exercises, and intuitive guidance so you can reconnect in ways that feel supportive and aligned.
You may have some questions…
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Rekindle is best for couples with a solid foundation who want their relationship to feel more connected, intimate, and aligned. If you’re open to exploring new tools, having honest conversations, and showing up with curiosity and care, this program will give you the guidance and structure to grow together in a deeper way.
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No. This isn’t therapy. It’s experiential coaching that combines somatic work, guided intimacy practices, communication tools, and emotional exploration. We won’t diagnose or treat mental health issues — we’ll work together to build awareness, strengthen connection, and create the intimacy you want in your relationship.
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Retreats are held in private homes or retreat spaces in or close to the San Francisco Bay Area, designed for intimate depth and connection. Final retreat locations will be shared in the first week of Rekindle.
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That’s completely normal. Apply anyway. We’ll talk through your questions together on the connection call.
Ready to Rekindle?
If Rekindle feels like the support you’ve been looking for, start your application below or schedule a call to explore whether it’s the right fit.